Apr 09

WHY PEOPLE LIE

by B.L. in Other 0 comments
For most of my life, I’ve been curious about something that seems to be a human phenomenon. Little kids do it. Teenagers do it. And adults do it. Even Disney characters (think Pinocchio) do it. It’s called lying. Lately I find myself wondering why people do it. Most people make such a mess of it. They tell whoppers that can so easily be uncovered. In this age of cellphone videos, body cams, social media, and information breaches, who doesn’t know your business? To me, lying seems worthless or at least more work than it’s worth. Yet people still do it. And I keeping asking myself, why do people lie? Experts Victoria Talwar and Kang Lee say that there are three types of lies. The first one is called a primary lie. This type of lie is told to hide what the teller did but fails to consider the mental state of the listener. Children as young as two and as old as four tell these kinds of lies. By the time children are four, they learn to tell secondary lies. These lies are more plausible. The teller has learned through trial and error to shape the lie to the listener’s […]
Apr 02

Sarita & Imani

by B.L. in Latest Novels 0 comments
In Sarita & Imani, an erotic tale of lust, love, faith, & a princess a mysterious homeless woman has been hanging around social worker Sarita White’s office building. On her way to work, Sarita begins to offer the woman coffee and food and communicates with her in sign language, as Sarita discovers the woman is deaf. Sarita wants to help the woman find shelter, especially after she is victimized by local juveniles. After a particularly horrifying beating, Sarita rescues the woman from the marauding youths and brings her to her office. From there, life as Sarita knows it is turned upside down. She is drugged, kidnapped, and ends up on a tropical island, part of a wilderness adventure program under the strict rule of Commander Imani Abdullah, from which she may never recover. Will Imani turn Sarita away with her harsh and ruthless methods? Or will Sarita and Imani find true love as an island prophecy decrees? Find out in Sarita & Imani. Sarita & Imani, an erotic tale of lust, love, faith, & a princess is available for pre-order 3/16/18 on Kindle. The release date is 4/2/18. ASIN: B07BHWWKQH (Kindle Version $2.99) ISBN-13: 978-1986439237 (Print Version $13.99) ISBN-10: 1986439232 […]
Mar 11

BLACK WOMEN AS KRYPTONITE OR ARE THEY CANARIES IN THE COAL MINE?

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I keep thinking about a newscaster guest expert I watched. I believe it was on AM Joy’s show sometime in November of 2017, when MSNBC contributor Jason Johnson said Black women were kryptonite to the Trump administration. I think not. I believe Black women are “canaries in the coal mine.” Just as canaries warned coal miners when there were poisonous gases inside the mines by chirping until they died, Black women are issuing early warning signals that this country is in serious trouble. In April 2017, Mr. Johnson had written an article about Black women being natural enemies to the Republican party and to the Trump administration in particular. In the article, he mentioned how Susan Rice was used by the Republicans in the mini-unmasking scandal. Remember how Ms. Rice, as a part of her job as national security advisor, asked to unmask the names of Trump’s transition officials? She wanted the names revealed to find out who on Trump’s team was talking to Russian spies that were meddling in US elections. President Trump and his Republican allies tried to distract the public from the truth about Russian meddling in our elections. He replaced it with a trumped-up theory that […]
Feb 26

WHY I WROTE “TYSON, a sister’s love be limitless”

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I’ve always wondered what Black lesbian life was like in the Harlem of the 20s and 30s. I decided to do some research before I started writing “TYSON” a bittersweet tale of loyalty, murder and romance during Harlem’s Renaissance. My purpose was to write a fictional murder mystery that takes place during that time. What I discovered was nothing. There were volumes written about white gays and lesbians living in New York during that time but very little, usually one or two paragraphs sometimes an entire page or two about Black gay life in Harlem. I found even less information, mainly antidotal information about Black lesbians living during the time period I was interested in. I enjoyed the research I’ve done on the subject of Black lesbians of Harlem in the 20s and 30s. Back in 2003, when I began researching this novel, I worked full time for the city so I did research at local libraries, cultural organizations like Herstory (lesbian archives) in Brooklyn, the LGBT Community Center’s historical collections at 13th Street in lower Manhattan, Schomburg Center for Research in Black Culture on 135th Street and Malcolm X Blvd after work and on weekends. I should also mention […]
Feb 19

WHAT BLACK HISTORY MONTH MEANS TO ME

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I read an article in a recent Southern Poverty Law Center1 newsletter that mentioned a survey SPLC2 conducted targeting approximately 1000 senior high schooler’s knowledge about American slavery. The SPLC survey also involved social studies teachers and reviewed the history textbooks they used. This is what the survey found. Would you believe only 8% of the high school seniors surveyed could identify slavery as the central cause of the Civil War? It gets worse. The Washington Post read the same survey and summarized it by saying this: • 68% of the students didn’t known slavery was formally ended by a Constitutional amendment. • 22% of the students could identify how provisions in the Constitution gave advantages to slaver holders. • 44% students knew that slavery was legal in all colonies during the American revolution. The survey also evaluated ten popular history textbooks. Even the best history textbook score was 70 points out of 100 points based on a rubric of what should be in a history book about American slavery. The remaining textbooks accumulated 46 points out of 100 points. Why am I telling you all this when Black History Month is half over? ____________________________ 1 I donate to Southern […]
Feb 12

LETTER TO MY GRANDDAUGHTER

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The photograph on the left was taken last year on the way to my sister’s Going Home Service in Maryland in December. That’s my 100-year old mother reading a menu at a seafood restaurant. She has a cellphone in the pocket of the jacket she’s wearing. She never leaves home without it and the emergency medical alert chain around her neck. She uses her cellphone to call folks like me; her two other children; six grandchildren; her AKA sorority sisters; friends and her neighbors. The photograph on the right was also taken last in December. That’s my 3-year old granddaughter in reindeer clown makeup. We’d just returned from the main branch of the NY public library at Fifth Avenue. We had gone to NYPL’s Christmas Open House for children. There she is relaxing with her mother’s cellphone in a chair made just her. (That’s what I told her as her mother and I put the two chairs together). As she sometimes does, my granddaughter is watching one of her favorite movies. She loves Sophia, Frozen, Pound Puppies and so many more kiddie movies I can’t remember. At three, she can scroll down screens; she can enlarge or reduce objects on […]
Jan 29

HOW FAR WOULD YOU GO TO HONOR A PROMISE? READ LEONIA’S STORY. IT WILL INSPIRE YOU

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“TYSON, a sister’s love be limitless” is a fictional whodunit written in the voice of a 27-year-old, southern “colored” woman, Leonia Gillette. She and her big brother, Tyson, come north to escape a drunken father who tried to rape her. They settle in Harlem in 1927 during the Harlem Renaissance and just before the Great Depression. In 1932, somebody castrates, then murders Tyson in a Harlem alleyway, supposedly as revenge for his unpaid gambling debts. Leonia doesn’t believe the police report and decides to investigate her brother’s death. Along the way to uncovering Tyson’s killer, Leonia introduces us to a cast of characters–good, bad, and very bad– found only in the Harlem of the thirties. TYSON, a sister’s love be limitless is available for pre-order on 1/23/18. The release date is 2/2/18   ASIN: B0795Y11HG (Kindle Version $2.99) ISBN-13: 978-1983996634 (Print Version $13.99) ISBN-10: 1983996637 (Print Version $13.99) Amazon Kindle USA: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0795Y11HG Amazon Kindle UK: http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B0795Y11HG Createspace: https://www.createspace.com/8021244 Smashwords: https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/782272 Book Trailer: https://youtu.be/PlGVVcusaz8 Book Trailer: https://youtu.be/FB7zA8kIeIg Ask David: http://askdavid.com/reviews/book/lesbian-murder-mystery/15796 Connect with BL Wilson at these links: Blog: http://wilsonbluez.com Facebook Business Page: https://www.facebook.com/patchworkbluezpress Goodreads: http://bit.ly/1BDmrjJ Linked-in: http://linkd.in/1ui0iRu Twitter: http://bit.ly/11fAPxR Smashwords profile page: http://bit.ly/1sUKQYP Amazon’s Author Page: http://bit.ly/1tY3e27
Jan 22

PLAYGROUND GAMES

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As a kid, if anybody asked me what my favorite elementary school class was, I’d always answer how much I loved recess. My mother would interrupt the conversation to correct me. She’d say recess wasn’t a class, but I remained steadfast. I’d mumble under my breath, “If recess isn’t a class, it oughta be.” The reason I loved recess in the wintertime so much was that I had the freedom to release the tomboy I felt screaming to be outside. That part of me wasn’t allowed be out any other time. I should explain. I came from a family and a time when young girls were expected to wear dresses to school, at home, at church, and even at play. Girls wore dresses everywhere. Of course, since girls dressed like miniature ladies, they were supposed to act like them as well. That meant no ball playing, including foot races, baseball, football, or basketball. In my elementary school, nobody knew what soccer was, so I didn’t play that game either. Girls could play dodgeball, red rover, jump rope, tag, hide ‘n’ seek, and jacks, but no marbles, a game in which I excelled, and other games that didn’t involve the running […]
Jan 17

I THOUGHT I KNEW WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE DIE

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I thought I knew what happens when we die. After all, I was familiar with death, since I’d experienced it at a young age. I was around eleven years old when my grandmother died at seventy-nine. The medical examiner’s records said she died of a heart attack, cardiac arrest. The report didn’t say that my grandmother was the main speaker at a church sisters’ meeting. The topic was Africa. As she was speaking at the front of the church, she felt funny. The sisters told my mother how my grandmother grabbed her chest and told the closest sister she needed to rest because she felt so tired. She managed to sit down in one of the front pews, never to rise again. So yes, I thought I knew death. When I was twelve, I bought a puppy from the local dog pound with five dollars I’d found fluttering the breeze, finally landing on a dirt should of a main road. My kid brother, big sister, and I were walking home from the library. It was the best five-dollar gift I’d ever spent on me. I called the puppy Lady, named after the female dog in Disney’s movie Lady & The […]
Dec 24

WHY I WROTE THE BOOKSTORE

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In this day and age of social media, short-term relationships and instant gratification, I wondered what a long-term, lesbian relationship looked like. What would the parties involved be like? Would they be saint-like women? Once these saints were engaged or married, they never ever looked at another woman and thought. “I want me some of that!” Or would they sneak and peek, having a side woman or a back-pocket woman on the down-low. You know the type of woman I mean. The two-faced women who walks the walk of a loyal, honorable, love-only-one woman for the public. Behind the scenes, it’s oh so very different. The same supposedly honorable women are busy creeping in and out of every woman’s bedroom but their own mate’s bed. Then there’s the reformed players, who used to be two-faced scoundrels but found true love. Now, they who ignore their own passionate urges and temptations to adhere to their vows. I wondered how difficult each role was to play. I decided to examine various types of women who had long-term relationships and see what I came up with. I tried to answer all of those questions and more when I wrote The Bookstore, 15 years […]
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